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8. Dance Hall Daze
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C H P T E R 8 Dance Hall Daze Trust me:it’snotnearlyasbadasBeckymakes itouttobe.Ifyoulistentoher,youmightbetemptedtobelieve thatIhavesolittlerhythmIcouldn’tevenplayaradio. That’ssimplynottrue.I’mnotholdingoutanylong-termhopes thatIwilleverbeaskedtojoinahip-hopboyband—although “Nguyen - Sync”hasaniceringtoit—becauseofmymusicaltalents anddance-fl oormoves.Buthey,asIliketoremindpeople, itwasonadancefl oorin1995thatIfi rstmetmygorgeouswife. TheshortversionofthestoryisthatIleftamajorimpression onherwithmysmooth,rhythmicmovesandmyfeetthatwere soobviouslymadetomovetothefunk. Thelongversionofthestory,though,isthatthemajorimpression Ileftonherwasprobablymorenegativethanpositive. Afterappeasingmeonthedancefl oorforafewminutes,she pulledtheoldfakeleft,gorightmove.Duringourdance,shetold mesheneededtoleavethefl oortogotothebathroom.Inaturally assumedshemeantshewasgoingtothebathroominsidethe 118 ✮ Chapter 8 club.Sheapparentlymeanttheoneinherdormroombecause shenevercameback.SheleftthebuildingfasterthanaBarry BondshomerunheadedforMcCoveyCove.Thenextmorning, whileshewasdiscussinghernightoutwithhergirlfriends,she casuallyinformedthem,“IdancedwiththebiggestChineseguy I’veeverseeninmylife.” Beckyhasbecometheloveofmylife,mysoulmate,buddy, partner,andtheanswertomyprayers.IthankGodforputting herinmylifeandmakingthelifewehavetogetherpossible. Sheisthewifeofmydreams,andsheisthebestmotheronthe planet.Iloveherhumor,wit,warmth,charm,intelligence,smile ...everythingabouther.Ialsolovethinkingaboutourfuture together.Butourpastmakesforsomeinterestingimagery,as well.Beckyismymostprizedcatch,butshewasinitiallymore difficulttocorralthantheNebraskaoptioninitsprime.Shegave memoreslipsthanawater-slidepark.Therewerepolitebrushoffs ,“Ijustwanttobefriends”speeches,awkwardtimes,down times,andtimeswhenshemadeitcleartomethatitwasover. Itcertainlydidn’tseemlikeoneofthose“meanttobe”relationships .ButfromthenightIfirstmether—andfromthefirstmoment sheever“juked”me—Ineverreallygaveupontheideaof ourbeingtogether. Ifyoucouldhaveseenitallunfold,youwouldhavesaidI wasagluttonforpunishment.ButIcallitpersistence.Isawthe womanIwanted,andIneverletgoofthatthought—evenwhen Iappearedtolethergo.Youknowthatsillyoldsayingabouthow “ifyoulovesomeone,let’emgo.Ifheorshecomesback,you knowitwasmeanttobe.”Well,there’sprobablysometruthto that.Itworkedforme.Infact,itmayhavebeenmypatienceand persistence—even more than my best electric boogaloo dance moves—thatfinallywonherheart. Ourfirstmeetingtookplaceduringthesummerof1995following two-a-daypracticesofmyredshirtfreshmanseason.It [3.17.181.21] Project MUSE (2024-04-26 16:26 GMT) Dance Hall Daze ✮ 119 wasreallylateorreallyearly—dependingonyourperspective— andIwaswithoneofmyfriendsfromRockport,SamSpears. SamandIhadbeendoingalittleunwindingasIcelebratedthe conclusionoftwo-a-days,andwedecidedtogointoadanceclub called Vertigo. As I previously mentioned, College Station is knownforitsconservatism.Thatonewordtypicallydescribes thepolitics,culture,dresscode,religiousfoundation,beliefsystem , and just about everything else regarding the area’s residents .Butthereisprobablyaneclecticcliquewithinvirtually everypopulationbase,andmanyofthosefolkswereondisplay atVertigothatnight,jammingtothepulsatingsoundsofthe technobeatthatseeminglyneverends.Ifyou’veeverbeentoa danceclublikethis...