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We say, you belong to me, or I belong to you. But is it possible to be possessed by others? And can we ever possess ourselves? In this raw and intimate account, Eva-Lynn Jagoe merges memoir with critical theory as she recounts the unraveling of everything she thought she knew about selfhood, relationships, and desire. Through the story of an upbringing in a patriarchal Spanish and American household, a dissociative and painful relationship towards men and power, and a chaotic marriage and divorce, she interrogates the destructive fantasy of possessive individualism that permeates our psyches and our cultural expectations. Woven through this narrative is an account of the unique relationship that Jagoe has with her psychoanalyst, in which she works through her tendency to give herself away to others, and learns to navigate the many contradictory selves that we all hold within us. This journey leads her to an enriched understanding of self-possession. Jagoe’s account of an examined life is inseparable from her commitment to the psychoanalytic, feminist, and queer theories that sustain and nourish her in her search for an expanded definition of self.Jagoe’s unique blend of musings and reflections on literature, fairy tale, and culture; her willingness to delve into abjection and contradictory desires; and her honest portrayal of the realities of psychoanalysis allow for a timely exploration of gender, sex, and power. Take Her, She’s Yours belongs in the company of Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick’s A Dialogue on Love and the memoirs of Maggie Nelson, Rachel Cusk, and Lidia Yuknavitch. It engrossingly conveys the lived urgency of critical thinking and the pleasures and perils of embodied selfhood. Take Her, She’s Yours is a story about loss and letting go, but also about the intimacy that emerges through an expanded definition of selfhood.

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  1. Cover
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  1. Title Page, Copyright
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  1. Contents
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  1. Acknowledgments
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  1. PROLOGUE
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  1. PART ONE
  1. Phone Number
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  1. Fishing
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  1. In Thrall
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  1. La americana
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  1. Trying Not To Understand
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  1. Ocean
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  1. Two Doctors
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  1. Take Her
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  1. Shortcut
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  1. Virgin Mary
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  1. Where the Couch Was
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  1. Selkie
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  1. Ooze
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  1. Native Skin
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  1. Umbrella
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  1. Daddy Issues
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  1. Self-Fashioning
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  1. Nobody
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  1. Women's World
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  1. Fridays
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  1. What Does a Woman Want?
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  1. Entrapment
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  1. Splitting
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  1. Deserving
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  1. PART TWO
  1. Catch Me
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  1. De Man
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  1. Holding
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  1. Monogamy
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  1. Porous
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  1. Its Own World
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  1. Too Much
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  1. Into the Destructive Element
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  1. Not Knowing
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  1. Cockroaches
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  1. The One
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  1. Cuckoo
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  1. Leda and the Swan
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  1. Animation
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  1. Error
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  1. L'inutile beauté
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  1. Dora and the Door
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  1. Run, Run, Run If You Can
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  1. PART THREE
  1. Rats
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  1. At the Beginning
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  1. Blanking Out
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  1. The Dwarves
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  1. Drift
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  1. How the Mighty Are Fallen
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  1. My Other Half
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  1. Ever After
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  1. Bloodlines
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  1. Leave
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  1. Anti-Revelation
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  1. Hot Water Bottle
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  1. July Weekend
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  1. You Fucked Up My Life
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  1. Heartbeat
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  1. The Third Term
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  1. One More Twist in the Spiral
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  1. Hue
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  1. Five Years In
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  1. Personal Writing
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  1. Georgian Bay
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  1. End of Analysis
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  1. Endnotes
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  1. Bibliography
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Additional Information

ISBN
9781950192823
Related ISBN(s)
9781950192816
MARC Record
OCLC
1202545705
Pages
216
Launched on MUSE
2021-06-12
Language
English
Open Access
Yes
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