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This collection of short essays delivers more joy than many books twice its size. Culled from two decades’ worth of Mary Helen Stefaniak’s “Alive and Well” column in the Iowa Source, each essay invites readers into the ordinary life of a woman “with a family and friends and a job . . . and a series of cats and a history living in one old house after another at the turn of the twenty-first century in the middle of the Middle West.” One great aunt presides over nineteen acres of pecan grove profitably strewn with junk. A borrowed hammer rings with the sound of immortality. Famous poets pipe up where you least expect them. Living and dying are found to be two sides of the same remarkable coin.

What’s more, writing prompts at the end of the book invite readers to search their own lives for such moments—the kind that could be forgotten but instead are turned, by the gift of perspective and perfectly chosen detail, into treasure. The Six-Minute Memoir encourages people to tell their own stories even if they think they don’t have the kind of story that belongs in a memoir.
 

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  1. Cover
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  1. Title Page, Copyright, Dedication
  2. pp. i-vi
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  1. Contents
  2. pp. vii-xii
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  1. A Note to Readers about What You'll Find in This Book
  2. pp. 1-4
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  1. A Sampler
  1. Aquila Non Capit Muscas: Puttin' on the Drake
  2. pp. 7-10
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  1. Positively 4th Street: Where Mothers Rule
  2. pp. 11-14
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  1. Great Aunts: From the Family Tree, Georgia Branch
  2. pp. 15-18
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  1. Cardiac Dreams: In the Heart of the Heart of the Country
  2. pp. 19-22
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  1. The Old Neighborhood
  1. King of Scrounge: Intimations of Immortality
  2. pp. 25-28
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  1. Hornet Wars: My Father Strikes Back
  2. pp. 29-31
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  1. Paradise Lost: Half a Lesson from Uncle Bud
  2. pp. 32-36
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  1. Old Country, New Country
  1. What's in a Name: The Ellis Eggs
  2. pp. 39-42
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  1. Photo Opportunities: Memory Takes a Better Picture
  2. pp. 43-46
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  1. Now There Is a Miracle, and Don't Matter What
  2. pp. 47-50
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  1. Theories of the Self
  1. The Right Clothes: Finding Yourself in the Fitting Room
  2. pp. 53-56
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  1. Are We Really Worth It? On Coloring One's Hair
  2. pp. 57-59
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  1. Take Me Out to the Ball Game: I Don't Care If I Ever Get Back. Really I Don't.
  2. pp. 60-64
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  1. Exercising Options
  1. The Porridge Club: "First We Swim. Then We Eat."
  2. pp. 67-69
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  1. In It for the Long Haul: A Bicycle Meant for Me
  2. pp. 70-73
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  1. Night Swimming: When the First Shall Be Last, or Vice Versa
  2. pp. 74-78
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  1. Outside the Comfort Zone
  1. What Did I Say? Fear and Babbling in the Speaker's Corner
  2. pp. 81-84
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  1. Where the Girls (and Boys) Are: Just Call Me Coach
  2. pp. 85-88
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  1. Scuba: Do? (or Don't)
  2. pp. 89-92
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  1. True Perils of Parenting
  1. The End of the World as We Know It: Little Girl Lost
  2. pp. 95-97
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  1. Mother and Child Reunion: What I Did on My Summer Vacation
  2. pp. 98-101
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  1. Sitting in the Lonely Seat on the Long Way Home
  2. pp. 102-105
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  1. On Baby Watch: Waiting to Take the Plunge
  2. pp. 106-110
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  1. In a Class by Itself
  1. Who Cares, Anyway? Diary of a School Age Romantic
  2. Mary Helen and Liz Stefaniak
  3. pp. 113-118
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  1. Role Models
  1. Infrequent Flier: Airborne in the Dairy Section
  2. pp. 121-124
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  1. Remembering Ellen: The Porridge Club Never Forgets
  2. pp. 125-128
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  1. Saturdays with Sarah: What We Learned from Our Friend
  2. pp. 129-132
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  1. From the Locker Room: Living Your Life in Technicolor
  2. pp. 133-136
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  1. Travels
  1. I Love New York: A Cornhusking, Cheese-Headed Hawkeye Bites the Big Apple
  2. pp. 139-143
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  1. Tales of a Happy Traveler: From the Chunnel to Sunny Florida
  2. pp. 144-147
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  1. I See London, I See France: On Missing Our Date with the Ducs de Joyeuse
  2. pp. 148-151
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  1. If It's Tuesday, This Must be Hong Kong
  2. pp. 152-156
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  1. Critters
  1. Philosopher Cat for Sale: The World According to Miz Franklin
  2. pp. 159-162
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  1. Squeaky Bites the Dust: Legacy of a Yorkshire Terrier
  2. pp. 163-166
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  1. Ducklings on Dodge and Other Rescues
  2. pp. 167-170
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  1. On Squirrels: A Not-So-Lyrical Essay
  2. pp. 171-174
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  1. Big Ideas
  1. David the Deconstructionist: Signs, Snorts, and Supercats
  2. pp. 177-180
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  1. Unnatural Selection: Regrets of a Spider Killer
  2. pp. 181-184
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  1. Against Multitasking: Why a Day's Work Is Never Done
  2. pp. 185-188
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  1. Here Comes the Sun! Time for a Little Order and Beauty
  2. pp. 189-192
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  1. On Location: Iowa
  1. Once Upon Linn Street: The Burg and I
  2. pp. 195-198
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  1. Driving Iowa: Where the Hills Are Alive
  2. pp. 199-202
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  1. In My Own Backyard: All the Little Dinosaurs
  2. pp. 203-206
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  1. Booking It
  1. Booking It, or Bon Voyage!
  2. pp. 209-212
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  1. I'm Nobody! Who Are You?
  2. pp. 213-217
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  1. Giants or Windmills? They Might Be Both
  2. pp. 218-222
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  1. Hysterical Preservation
  1. I: How to Bite Off More Than You Knew You Could Chew
  2. pp. 225-228
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  1. II: Foundations 101 or Surprise, Surprise
  2. pp. 229-232
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  1. III: Interior Demolition
  2. pp. 233-236
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  1. IV: Boards and Circuses
  2. pp. 237-240
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  1. V: Which Does Not Contradict What Is Known
  2. pp. 241-244
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  1. My Brain Event
  1. I: Let's Make a Deal!
  2. pp. 247-250
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  1. II: Dire Straits (and Rolling Stones)
  2. pp. 251-254
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  1. III: The Final Episode
  2. pp. 255-258
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  1. Writing Prompts: Write Your Own Six-Minute Memoirs
  2. pp. 259-262
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  1. Acknowledgments
  2. pp. 263-264
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  1. Bibliography
  2. pp. 265-268
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