Courtship and Love among the Enslaved in North Carolina
Publication Year: 2007
Published by: University Press of Mississippi
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This book would probably never have begun, and definitely would never have been finished, if it were not for the persistence and motivation of Rebecca Earle and Cecily Jones. They have both cast critical eyes over every aspect of this research when it was in its embryonic form, and I am forever thankful that they forced me to constantly question, reconsider, and revise my thoughts—I have come to realize that this is a necessary and valuable, although ...
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Alonzo Haywood’s comment reflected on the relationship between his father, Willis Haywood, and his mother, Mirana Denson, who were both enslaved in antebellum North Carolina.2 He explained that while his father was enslaved at Falls of Neuse, he fell in love with Mirana Denson, who lived in Raleigh, “He come to see her ever’ chance he got and then they were married.” Reflecting on the strength and sincerity of his parent’s feelings for one another ...
1. “Love Seems with Them More to be an Eager Desire”: Racialized Stereotypes in the Slaveholding South
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The interaction of particular views and arguments concerning sexuality and race has been central to discussions concerning the enslaved since the colonial period. The enslaved body and enslaved men and women’s sexual identities were constructed in the imaginations of Europeans as symbolic of the “dark continent” of Africa and all that it embodied. The travel accounts of sixteenth and seventeenth-century male travelers to the Americas and Africa contributed ...
2. Asking Master Mack to Court: Competing Spheres of Influence
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The emotional lives of the enslaved were significant terrains upon which slaveholders could exercise their sense of mastery and claims of ownership. As has been widely documented elsewhere, slaveholders used threats of sale and separation from family members as a tool to discipline and punish their slave populations. In the process they manipulated the emotional ties of their slaves and ripped apart the individual stitches that made up the quarters of the enslaved: ...
3. Getting Out to Play and Courting All They Pleased: The Social and Temporal Geographies of Enslaved Courtship
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Anna Wright’s mother had been enslaved to James Ellis in Scotland County. She recalled that during slavery, although “de slaves worked hard in de fiel’s . . . unless de work wus pushin’ dey had Sadday evening off ter go a-fishin er do anything de wanted ter do.” Elaborating upon the ways in which the enslaved spent their leisure time and the slaveholder’s role in this, Anna Wright ...
4. Taking a Whipping for Lily: Courtship as a Narrative of Resistance
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Lily Perry was an assertive and defiant woman enslaved on a plantation belonging to Jerry Perry in Franklin County. Recalling her bold retaliations to the punishments received at the hands of her master and the overseer, she remarked, “When dey’d start ter whup me I’d bite lak a run-mad dog so dey’d chain my han’s. See hyar, hyars de scars made by de chains. Dey’d also pick me up by de years, an flin’ me foun (around).” Lily’s future spouse, Robert, must ...
5. A Red Satin Ribbon Tied around My Finger: The Meaning of the Wedding Ceremony
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Recalling her marriage to Exter, an enslaved man who resided on a neighboring plantation in Chatham County, Tempie Herndon Durham brought to mind the moments of the day that she and Exter had enjoyed: “When I growed up I married Exter Durham. He belonged to Marse Snipes Durham who had de plantation ’cross de county line in Orange County. We had a big weddin’. We was married on de front po’ch of de big house. Marse George killed a ...
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The stories told within the pages of this book are not fiction—Willis and Mirana Haywood, Mary Bell’s parents, Lily and Robert Perry, Barbara and Frank Haywood, Annie Tate’s grandparents, Wesley and Minerva Jane, Lucy Ann and Jim Dunn, Tempie and Exter Durham, Lissa and Cleve Lawson were real people. Their stories are true-life narratives reflecting the realities of lives lived under slavery by a people who would have held painful and traumatic memories ...
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Publication Year: 2007