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3. Ritual Marriage and Making Kin
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3 RitualMarriageandMakingKin Weddingsarecelebratedbythreedays’festivity,whichconsists principallyinchichadrinking,withsinging,dancing,andmusic keptupincessantlydayandnight. —AlfredSimson(1883:24)onNapoRunaweddings Beforemywedding,duringthe“dry”monthsof1994,Iandthoseassociated withmyadoptivefamilyinYacuLlactaspentmonthspreparingforthe arrivalofthewarmiparti,or“woman’sside.”Onthedaythewarmiparti wasdue,Iwasparticularlyexhaustedfromhavingstayedupalltheprevious night,participatinginthefiestaforthecariparti,or“man’sside.”Wehad beenpreparingforweeks:fishing,harvestingmanioc,preparingbeverages andfood,recruitinghelpersandotherritualparticipantsforthewedding ceremony,andprovidingthewarmipartiwithtransportationfromPucara. GaloandIwerenowwaitingforthebusesthatweretobringthebride andherrelatives,bothnearanddistant,fromPucara.Theriverwasclear, low,andslowmovingunderanunforgivingsun;wewaitedforhourson thatincrediblyhotday.AtonepointGalosaidtome,“Theyaren’tcoming. Theystoodyouup.Let’sgohome.”Dejectedandtired,Ireplied,“Let’s waitjustafewmoreminutes.” Suddenlyweheardtherumbleofabusinthedistance.Inafewminutes threebusesemergedfromthetreesandcametoanabruptstopamidacloud ofdust.Peoplebeganexitingquickly.Theyweretalkinginananimatedfashion ,carryingmanythings,andshoutingandlaughing.Agrandmothergot offthebusandcamerightuptome.Shegreetedmeasmasha(son-in-law) andtookmyhand,strokingitgently.Shesaid,“Itisourcustomtogivethe mashaanameonhisweddingday.Idon’tthinkIhaveeverseensuchahot summerdayasthis.Lookhowthesunburns.”Shelookedupatthesunand thenturnedaround,announcing,“Thisisourintimasha[sunmasha].” 03.69-94_Uzen.indd69 5/26/059:25:22AM 70 the napo runa of amazonian ecuador LiminalityandProduction AccordingtoVanGennep(1965:3),“Thelifeofanindividualinanysocietyis aseriesofpassagesfromoneagetoanother.”VanGennepthussawsociety asaseriesoftransformations.Hisinsightwastosuggestthattransitionalrites exhibitagenerallogicofthreeessentialphases.Firstthereisseparation.Next thereisthe“liminal”period,inwhichthepersonissymbolicallyoutsidesociety and“in-between”communitiesorcohorts.Lastthereisincorporation, whichsignalsanewstatusofthepostliminalperson(VanGennep1965;Morris 1987).Thisschemahasinfluencedmanydifferentanthropologists,butVictor Turnerinparticularhasdevelopedandrefinedthiscomplexofideas. In“BetwixtandBetween,”fromTheForestofSymbols(1967),Turnerdescribes thecharacteristicsoftheliminalperiod.Liminalityisanambiguous conditioninwhichallcategoriesandclassificationsarerituallydissolved,with thedissolutionoftenexpressedthroughmetaphorsandrolereversals.In addition,liminalityoftenincludesaperiodofseclusionorsymbolsthereof. Moreover,stressisputontheabsoluteauthorityofelders,whoarethekeepers ofmoralityandritualknowledge.Turnerthusviewsliminalityasamodeof ritualactionlinkedtosocialprocess,ameansofcreatingandtransforming socialrelationships.Turnershowsthatexplanationsofliminalitymustrest notonstructurebutratheronitsnegation. Ritualliminalityproducesrealeffectswithinsociety,forritualscreatevalue bytransformingrelationships.Indeed,theritualsIwilldiscussemployantistructural processestoemphasizedissolvingrelationshipsandidentities.The destructiveaspectofritualandpublicaction,however,isinternaltoproduction itself(Damon2002b:127).RitualmarriageamongtheRunaexhibits principlesofdestructionthatallowforsocialrecombinationandtheproduction ofvaluedrelationshipsthatdefineadultpersonhood.Ritualinvolvesthe exchangeandcirculationnotonlyofthingsbutalsooftherelationalparts ofpersons(Damon2002b). Thisviewofritual,however,becomesclearwhenframedintermsofthe argumentthatmarriageamongtheRunaispartofatotalsocialprocess. MarriageprocessesunfoldfromtheNapoRunanotionofpersons“with relationshipalreadyimplied”(Wagner1991:163).AsIwilldetaillater,marriage notonlytransformsindividualpersonsbutalsoreproducesthewholeof NapoRunasociety.NapoRunapeoplesay...