Cover

pdf iconDownload PDF
 

Contents

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. v-vi

read more

Acknowledgments

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. vii-viii

Writing this book was a journey. Before I even began the writing process, I engaged in five years of participant interviews. I did not do all of these interviews by myself—I had a team of fantastic graduate research assistants who assisted me. I am deeply grateful for the sensitivity, care, and discipline of my doctoral students ...

read more

Introduction: Gay Parenthood in Context

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 1-24

Carter, a 37-year-old teacher, and Patrick, a 41-year-old professor, lived in a midwestern suburb. They had been together for approximately 10 years at the time they began to consider parenthood. Before meeting Patrick, Carter had been unsure of whether he would be able to become a parent. He felt that he might have ...

read more

Chapter 1. Decisions, Decisions: Gay Men Turn toward Parenthood

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 25-61

When I first interviewed Rufus and Trey, they had been waiting for a child placement for just a few months. They were both excited to talk about the adoption process; this was not always the case for couples who had been waiting for many months or even years for a child placement. Both fairly young (Rufus was 37 and Trey was 32), ...

read more

Chapter 2. Navigating Structural and Symbolic Inequalities on the Path to Parenthood: Adoption Agencies, the Legal System, and Beyond

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 62-94

Lars, a 36-year-old White man, and Joshua, a 40-year-old White man, had been together for 12 years when they began the process of adopting. They described a long period of “considering” parenthood before actually pursuing it, because it took several years for Joshua to match Lars’s level of commitment and enthusiasm. ...

read more

Chapter 3. Engaging Multiple Roles and Identities: Men’s Experiences (Re)negotiating Work and Family

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 95-130

Sam, a 36-year-old White financial analyst, and Jake, a 30-year-old White doctoral student, were living in a suburb on the West Coast when they adopted their daughter, Hannah, via private domestic open adoption. Sam earned an income of more than $200,000 a year, while Jake made about $20,000 as a teaching assistant ...

read more

Chapter 4. Kinship Ties across the Transition to Parenthood: Gay Men’s Relationships with Family and Friends

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 131-166

Henry and Luis, both aged 45, had been together for just about two years when they began the process of adopting a child. Henry, who identified as half-Spanish, was self-employed as a physical therapist, and Luis, who identified as Cuban American, worked as a surgeon at a local hospital in the Northeast ...

read more

Chapter 5. Public Representations of Gay Parenthood: Men’s Experiences Stepping “Out” as Parents and Families in Their Communities

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 167-192

The 38-year-old Daniel and 39-year-old Vaughn, both White, were living in a rural area in the Northeast when they adopted Miri, an African American baby girl, via private domestic adoption. Out in public, both men noted that they felt somewhat more “out” as parents, in that Miri’s presence served to clearly ...

read more

Conclusion

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 193-202

Gay parenthood represents just one example of the new family forms that are emerging in today’s society. Single-parent families, adoptive families, multiracial families, and complex co-parenting arrangements (e.g., a lesbian couple and a gay male couple; a single woman and a gay male friend, who is also the sperm donor) ...

Appendix A: The Larger Study

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 203-204

Appendix B: Procedure

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 205-206

Appendix C: Interview Questions

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 207-210

Appendix D: Participant Demographic Table

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 211-214

Notes

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 215-218

References

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 219-232

Index

pdf iconDownload PDF

pp. 233-234

read more

About the Author

pdf iconDownload PDF

p. 235

Abbie E. Goldberg is Associate Professor of Psychology at Clark University in Worcester, Massachusetts, and a senior research fellow at the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute. She is the author of Lesbian and Gay Parents and Their Children: Research on the Family Life Cycle, …