- Rise Up
Black women, resistance, lynching, police brutality, Black Lives Matter, Say Her Name
If I were a man They’d be hashtagging my name and calling me a martyr Celebrating my resistance as the ultimate stand Against State power I’d be a street legend, like gangsters who went out blazing, like souljahsThey’d be lamenting about how my son is gonna value his Daddy’s sacrifice When he gets a little older If I were a 6ft man They’d never believe I hung myself with a trash bag in a cell Right after I called the police force pussies, Told them all to go to hellThey’d believe that I was too rational, too strong for that, if I were a man If I were a man They wouldn’t chastise me for training my son to be a resister Call me a bad dad, like they labeled me a bad mom Because I was an unapologetically black, an outspoken sisterThey’d know I was training and protecting my son from a brutal State If I were a man They’d understand a father’s need to ensure his son Would fight to resist the all too familiar fate Of becoming another voiceless Black boy laid slain in the streetsBlood flowing from bullet wounds in Black bodies, stains on black concrete If I were a man [End Page 205] They’d know that I had refused to imagine his mother’s scream Falling to her knees and crying out to God asking,No helplessly and hopelessly begging Him to take her instead, please! The streets would understand my need to “be a man” If I were a man They wouldn’t have to ask me to #sayhername There are hashtags for virtually every Black man slain today Hell! My sisters would already be in formation They’d be resisting on my behalf commemorating My refusal to be lynched by State actors in this nation If I were a man They would never forget my name because it would beEtched in every mind and passed on like fables through generations Because we paid the ultimate price for our resistance, We didn’t bow downWe rose up, spoke up, loaded up, fists up, fought back until our last breath And the price we paid for resistance—death Shiiit . . . If I were a man My memory would be memorialized long after my body was laid to rest But that’s only if I were a man Wouldn’t my very resistance be heroically grand If only, I were a man? #KorrynGaines #SandraBland [End Page 206]
Zoe Spencer is a scholar activist from Barry Farms Projects in southeast DC who received her PhD, MSW, and BA from Howard University. She is a professor of sociology at Virginia State University and an unapologetic resister and comrade to the Sisters who stand on the front line of the battle against all forms of oppression.